I want to wake parents up before hindsight does.

I’m a psychologist and a mother. My son disclosed sexual abuse at daycare, and the investigation closed with the words no offence detected. I write so other families act sooner than I did.

this is how harm travels, and how it stops.

Three bodies of work, one purpose.

Everything I make is an attempt to close that gap.

 

These people are not caught by parents, or children, or centres. They are caught by police finding material online, years later, by accident. I write about everything that happens before that.

 

My works is for the children, for parents, researchers, workers and survivors. 

 

Poetry for the people to feel it. A children’s book for the child who can’t yet say it. A memoir for the adults and the system that needs to see it. 

A collection

No Offence Detected

Visceral, experience-led poems that refuse to look away and refuse to be only grief. Police language turned against itself, a body that knew first, a dinosaur lamp still on. What ‘no offence detected’ forges

Wings to Fly
A protective behaviours story

Wings to Fly: Courage and Tricky Secrets

This story follows a boy and his peer, and a friendship that turns tricky. Alongside the boy is a little bird who mirrors his feelings when he has no words for them, and who becomes the quiet shape of his recovery when he is hurt. It’s gentle protective behaviours carried by story and metaphor.

The Signs We Miss
Part memoir, part field guide

The Signs We Miss

I assess child sexual abuse allegations for courts. I missed it in my own son. Read about the project, add your voice, and hear first when the book is published.

No Offence Detected

No offence detected. Three words that closed an investigation, and named a collection. These poems are not about what happened to my son. They are what I became.

Accountability is not violence.
Ignorance is what abuse depends on.

So does familiarity.


Know their name. Not their reassurances. Their record.

From 'Know Their Name'

I read in a low voice and the words build walls around us, a fortress the institutions do not have the key to.

This is the only jurisdiction I have won.

From 'Sanctuary'

Performed at the Ubud Readers and Writers Festival poetry slam. Written in a lineage rooted in Negro spirituals and carried forward by activist poets u2014 after Neal Hall, who writes after Martin Luther King Jr., and after Rob Waters. Voice passed from one throat to another. Hear the poems aloud on the, Poetry & Performance page.

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Forensic where it must be, tender where it can be.

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The Protective Insight

A registered psychologist writing on child sexual abuse in early childhood: what the signs actually look like, what happens when you report them, how to protect your children, and why so few reports go anywhere.

Standing on the same wound, twice.

'These poems are not about what happened to my son. They are what I became.'

I’m a psychologist and a court appointed expert who understands disclosure, abuse signs, dissociation, and grooming clinically. I’m also a mother whose child did not get justice. Most people writing in this space have one form of standing. I have both.

My son disclosed sexual abuse at daycare. I knew the research, and I still waited, held by the same normalcy bias and dissociation I now name for other parents. By the time I acted, critical evidence was gone. The investigation closed with three words. I sold a seven figure psychology practice and began again, as a writer and advocate.

The work moves parents from passive trust to informed vigilance: to recognise warning signs earlier, trust their instincts sooner, and ask harder questions of the institutions they were told to trust. Curiosity is not paranoia. Vigilance is not violence.

For my family’s safety, I write under a pen name and use altered imagery. This work is literary and true to my lived experience.

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